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14."I went on a trip to a tropical country. I found a little, secluded, resort-type place with a lock while exploring the area. I spent the entire afternoon there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go peruse by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me..."
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came help with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could experiment, and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
Why do some unbent men have sex with other men?
According to nationally-representative surveys in the Combined States, hundreds of thousands of straight-identified men have had sex with other men.
In the fresh book Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America released today, UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva argues that these men – many of whom savor hunting, fishing and shooting guns – are not closeted, bisexual or just experimenting.
After interviewing 60 of these men over three years, Dr. Silva establish that they relax a range of relationships with other men, from hookups to sexual friendships to secretive loving partnerships, all while strongly identifying with straight culture.
We spoke with Dr. Silva about his book.
Why do straight-identified men have sex with other men?
The majority of the men I interviewed reported that they are primarily attracted to women, not men. Most of these men are also married to women and prefer to have sex with women. They explained that although they loved their wives, their marital sex lives were not as active as they wanted. Sex with men allowed them to own more sex. They don’t consider sex with men cheating and s
Straight men don’t want queer friends
Content Note: mention of homophobia
It’s my first week at Cambridge and I am walking to a lecture with the other people from my course at my college. We make the casual, tedious small talk of freshers’ week. Except, I acquire no idea what they’re talking about. I attempt to ask, but I am met with smirks, half-explanations and at worst I am ignored. Any attempt to change the conversation, about an designer I’ve never listened to, is likewise ignored. I soon learn to express joy along with the others, smirk and snort as they do. I conclude up talking to the only girl of the group. We have nothing in common except she is equally as bored with the conversation as I am.
Now, this event would not have irritated me much, except that it is part of a trend that I have been experiencing my entire life. Being excluded by straight men is not unfamiliar territory for me - by this point it’s to be expected. I recall existence called gay in the playground as early as 9; at age 13, a boy I considered a good friend suddenly started mocking my clear effeminacy; and just this year a friend standing next to me used the word “gay” to describe his broken TV.
"To be accepted ar
Tips for cis men who wish to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s essential to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and name as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We argue trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic