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My(35M) first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, 2020 11:10 PM   Subscribe

I am a 35 year antique cis man, and I have been only with women my whole animation. Suddenly I uncover myself being attracted to men, and my first lgbtq+ sexual experience is coming up! I feel like a teenager again :) How should I prep for this?


Hello. I am a 35 year old cis guy, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.

A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.

Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!

So long story limited, I've met a kind, gentle male lover man who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my match in this adventure. The big afternoon is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I comprehend I should experiment to be spontaneous but I hold so many questions! What are things I should be ke

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First gay experience was with a 45 year old

Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay

Although when a child you have those moments you show your friend your dick and what not, this is my first real sexually experience with a another guy. First off let me express I consider myself straight, although technically I have been with men so I guess that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around 13. I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.

When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don’t believe that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in high educational facility I was 17. That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the loss of my virginity from both. Early that year in the fall, I first confused my virginity to a miss. Then when spring came I finally decided to start looking into doing it.

I could not risk looking for someone I know out of fear that people would discover out so I never even consi

Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a protected and respectful way

To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to know that you can endeavor new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who desire to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the contrary of trans. We confer trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and suggestion about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.

1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious

Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are sympathetic